The Big Lie about Selfishness
My clients often talk about feeling guilty about being too selfish.
The lop-sided belief that being selfish is bad is a huge misconception many folks have accepted without question.
In reality, we have both selfish and selfless wants and needs and each can be healthy or unhealthy.
Distorted, "either/or" thinking doesn't allow room for the actuality of being both selfish and selfless.