If – a poem by Rudyard Kipling

If – a poem by Rudyard Kipling

If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you, If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too; If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies, Or...
The Man’s Guide to Women

The Man’s Guide to Women

Written by one of the premier contemporary psychologists researching the fundamentals of successful, lasting relationships, Dr. John Gottman distills all his best findings into this easy to read manual for men who want to have a lifetime of fulfilling connections with...
The Big Lie about Selfishness

The Big Lie about Selfishness

My clients often talk about feeling guilty about being too selfish. The lop-sided belief that being selfish is bad is a huge misconception many folks have accepted without question. In reality, we have both selfish and selfless wants and needs and each can be healthy...